First Date...Or Wait?
Whether you want it to or not, your relationship will change after sex. The temptation begins when you it feels like you’ve known each other for ages. If you feel pressured, or have had too much to drink, capping the first date with a sleepover might make it your last. We're here to help you decide....
Be clear about what you’re looking for.
If you’re both down for a one night stand, or a “friends with benefits” kind of scenario, be honest about it. It will make things a lot easier for both of you. This way, no one gets hurt and no one gets accused of being immature or soulless. If you’re both looking for “the one”, and he’s holding open doors and taking you out to a fancy spot for dinner, he’s probably not hoping to bed you that night. If you can't tell, ASK.
If you’re both down for a one night stand, or a “friends with benefits” kind of scenario, be honest about it. It will make things a lot easier for both of you. This way, no one gets hurt and no one gets accused of being immature or soulless. If you’re both looking for “the one”, and he’s holding open doors and taking you out to a fancy spot for dinner, he’s probably not hoping to bed you that night. If you can't tell, ASK.
Be honest with yourself about your motives.
Rebound hookups are rarely A good idea. If you’ve just had your heart broken and are looking to get freaky with the first dude who comes around, think before you act. Usually you’ll end up feeling even worse than you did before.
Rebound hookups are rarely A good idea. If you’ve just had your heart broken and are looking to get freaky with the first dude who comes around, think before you act. Usually you’ll end up feeling even worse than you did before.
If you think he’s boyfriend material, it's probably a good idea to wait.
If you can see yourself in a relationship with the guy, best practice is to wait it out for a few dates. Build that solid emotional connection before you get physical, and it will make for a better sex in the long run. But if it happens on the first night, don’t beat yourself up. If there was a serious connection between you and you both felt it, you’ll see each other again.
If you can see yourself in a relationship with the guy, best practice is to wait it out for a few dates. Build that solid emotional connection before you get physical, and it will make for a better sex in the long run. But if it happens on the first night, don’t beat yourself up. If there was a serious connection between you and you both felt it, you’ll see each other again.
If you wouldn’t feel comfortable talking about it, don’t do it.
Ask yourself if you would feel embarrassed talking about sex with your date. If you would, you’re not ready to take that step with him. Simple as that.
Ask yourself if you would feel embarrassed talking about sex with your date. If you would, you’re not ready to take that step with him. Simple as that.
If you’re really questioning it, Don't.
If you’re wondering if he'll call in the morning, help yourself out and step away. If you’re going stir crazy before you’ve even done it, think how you’re going to feel afterwards waiting for that next text. Wait until you’re absolutely sure it's right.
If you’re wondering if he'll call in the morning, help yourself out and step away. If you’re going stir crazy before you’ve even done it, think how you’re going to feel afterwards waiting for that next text. Wait until you’re absolutely sure it's right.
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